Contemporary

Truth about Sex and Loyalty

Weekend chats with girlfriends can be interestingly nonsensical at times. Well, at least some do think so. This weekend we spilt out issues from women’s mags and “Dear Someone-who-listens-to-my-problems-but-somehow-I’m-in-bigger-trouble” kind of letters. Not that I detest these kind of columns but some cases are really melodramatic. *pfffth* too much emotions sometimes.

Anyway, we yak-yak-yakkiti-yak till… first, loyalty issues. Right. So my girlfriends think everyone is not loyal even if that person has someone else in hand. I chose to differ. Really, nobody can measure loyalty with some measuring tape from Ikea, is this not true? Nor can you compare and say “Nini has a loyalty of fishbowl but Fifi’s loyalty’s only half a ricebowl”?! Tell me the formula if you have it. Then someone just asked,

“Okay, say… Brendan’s your boyfriend, and Charlie just came about in the scene with every bit of quality Brendan has that you luuuuurve. And, you found out that Charlie has something better over Brendan. Leave B and go for C?”

Now, what could be something that C has and B might not have that’ll make me go ga-ga over C?

Someone just went, “okay, so unless Charlie is better than Bren in bed… wait! anywhere would do, so as long C’s sexually better, I’d rather keep B. I’m loyal.”

There, we yak-yikkiti-yak-ed till digging stories about sex. Honestly. Simply look into “Dear Thelma” from Sunday Star. When you’re high in your resource, lifestyle magazines reveal more. At some point in marriage scenes, some spouses complain about their other spouse’s lack-of-libido, or dysfunctionallity, or simply… “not sexy enough”. Husbands and wives altogether. There are cases when the women complain their husbands’ lack of drive and having sexual fantasies with other men. Some even engage with the other men. Men often complain bout their wives “not desirable in bed” and, (oh well) thus, the emotional tumbles and marriage wreckage. Okay, so these are the stereotypical cases we hear about. Ahh, the spices of marriage… some may say, “the need for good sex.”

Aah, so back to the sexual battle between Charlie and Bren, or in other way of saying, the loyalty value for Charlie and Bren, what trully matters? Charlie just suddenly pop into the pic, right? Let’s say she already had sex-es with Bren, the only way to find out whether Charlie is better is to have sex with Charlie. And to be fair, the same amount of sex-es?! hmm… Somebody just go get laid and tell me if that sexual experience was a blast. I’ll tell if that person’s a loyal lad or lass.

A lady once said, “My husband cannot runaway. He won’t be a happy man in other beds.” She was said to be a very sexy teacher. Totally W-O-W

Oh by the way, to my homies who are reading this, check this out! Is the girl in the centre Skay or someone who looks extremely like Skay?